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Pam B's avatar

Damn you, Carlotta!

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Jd Michaels's avatar

Take heart, that we'll be loving you, always.

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Cintra Wilson's avatar

Loving you BACK J to the D

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Jim Blake's avatar

Cintra Klimt - excellent painting ! Great essay !

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Cintra Wilson's avatar

Thanks Jim!!

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Sluggita's avatar

oh this one hurt pretty bad😭

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rox415's avatar

It's understandable, how the foiled serendipity would still stink all these years later.

But here's to Stevie Wonder, that spontaneous genius and now-Ghanaian citizen.

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MICK STINGLEY's avatar

I (kinda) miss you. 😘

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Jonathan  Carroll's avatar

You wish that day could…come back once more.

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Cintra Wilson's avatar

I do, I do.

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Chris Norris's avatar

Ugh. I knew where this was going from the first mention of Bootzilla. I was at that P-Funk show at Bimbo’s 365, near the front of the stage. Stevie Wonder appeared like a hallucination, sang along to “(Not Just) Knee Deep,” was Stevie Wonder, and the show was, unfortunately, everything you might imagine. But! This sounds like a primal wound that destined you for greatness.

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Cintra Wilson's avatar

You’re a super sweet one, Norris .

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Erich W. Reinhard's avatar

Every time I hear Sheryl Crow now I experience something as keen as this.

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Cintra Wilson's avatar

Were you also in a band with her?

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Erich W. Reinhard's avatar

Ahh, no such luck. Perhaps I should rescind my comment.

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Margaret Braun's avatar

This one Hurts.. then he moves to Africa

Damn . Play FF Finale right this minute

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Courtney Daniels's avatar

The pain and the beauty! So bittersweet.

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Chris Stanton's avatar

This hurt to read. I can’t imagine the soul-shattering disappointment. I was lucky enough to see Stevie once. It was at a memorial concert for Grover Washington Jr. He was one of several artists, so he didn’t play a long set, but it was thrilling. I really hope you get to see him someday.

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Paul Riddell's avatar

I hear you. I got so used to getting this treatment on birthdays from parents, friends, and exes that I just stopped any talk of doing anything on my birthday. (My ex in particularly would not only screw up purchasing tickets, but she repeatedly decided that birthday evens were when she needed the car to do things with her creepy cult friends.) I now deal with it by planning to go by myself on everything (this way, I’m not paying for tickets for people who invariably flake at the last second), but those previous incidents still grate, even a half-century later.

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apdarrow's avatar

"gibbering over a shopping cart full of antlers" *weeping*

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Teófilo de Jesús's avatar

Minor typo: Tito *Puente*. 😇🇵🇷

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Cintra Wilson's avatar

Thank you Señor

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Kersty Franklin's avatar

FELT!!!

Can I just say that I love you, girl?

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Cintra Wilson's avatar

Werd. Love you too.

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Timby's avatar

I got tickets to see the "last" Monkees concert (with Micky and Mike), and my very paranoid girlfriend at the time said she wouldn't let me near her for a month if I went (this was during COVID). I didn't go, and Mike died soon after. Not the same level of musician, but it's a similar feeling.

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